The boy I'm seeing says that I have some qualities that are very annoying but he's not leaving me. Even though he's misinterpreting my behavior and I don't have the qualities he's claiming but If I had them I think he should dump me, because if he had them i would dump him.
Example: if your partner thinks you're insecure, clingy, needy, selfish... but you're not any of those what would you do? and how would you feel?
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I would ask how I am those things, and what I did to demonstrate those qualities? I'd feel like this person will never like to his or her full potential. It seems like this person is settling or waiting for someone better. I would feel sad and disappointed.1