Been talking to this girl i met online for 2 months now. I'm aware 2 month is too long.
Anyway she likes me, i like her. However one day though she invited me to a party and of course i accepted as she'd probably be drunk and it'd be a fun hook up. She also told me "hey my best friend is going to be there to talk to ya as she's very protective" and "my friends with benefits is going to be there too" and im like "np" cause idc lol
On the day of the party, im not getting ANY calls by her, just texts by her asking where i am, and whenever i call or text her none of it goes through. It literally felt like she blocked me but forgot? And yes I tried texting/calling via another phone and nothing happened
Anyway since i felt like she was blocking me, i remembered she was in a band. A quick google search got me to their Facebook page and i contacted one of the band members to contact the girl to tell her she might have accidentally blocked me.
He agreed no problems at all, we also started tlaking and i asked him about some of the stuff the girl said about the band, like how she draws for the band, plays guitar, they go to northen PA to go to a recording studio (we live in nj), and it turns out a lot of what she said was a lie. The person I was talking to, the girl told me they were best friends for 3 years, he said they've never met at all LOL
My real life friend suggested I should do a 1$ reverse phone look up... and well the name I found (who pays for her service plan) doesn't exactly sound German (thats the girls nationality). This was another red flag
I talked to this girl's friends with benefits, he told me him and her have never met and there was no party he was invited to.. another red flag. Also me and him discussed the stuff (all of above) i found out... he TOLD HER and now she's creeped out. she also flirted with him too while drunk on the phone right after me and her got done on the phone
Anyway how do ifix
- Give her timeVote A
- You can't fix thisVote B
^^^^ This was a couple days ago, before any of this argument/weird stuff. me and her flirted, then i hung up and she flirted madly with him
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Umm if you are set on fixing things you'll obviously need to give her time and then communicate with her. Only she knows what she wants and needs.
However I would just get away from her. Sounds like she lies a lot and like she doesn't really know what she wants. I personally wouldn't get involved with someone like that. There are plenty of other women in the world.
Also to some extent I can understand why she'd be creeped out but at the same time she kind of has no room to say anything or be mad since majority of what she's told you (if not everything) is a lie. If she was being upfront about everything about her and her life there would of been no reason for you to be suspicious and snoop around the way you did. Not saying what you did was really "right" either... but like I said... it is what it is.2