Do you have any tips or warnings about dating an older guy (age 40-45)?
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I have been always a believer that a man can't deceive a woman unless she allows him to. If you lack assertiveness, if you are insecure , or if you let him do something you don't want because you are embarrassed, then this is start of trouble.
You have to regard him as your ''equal'' .. he is NOT all knowledgable... invincible or the most wise. You are equal to him and your feelings , needs, circumstances are as important as his.. it doest matter if he is a business man etc etc... because i can imagine that you can easily be strung by him if you take a subordinate role. Basically.. if you feel you can't say something to him that you would have said easily to a 26 year old then you are in trouble. You HAVE to regard him as equal.. not superior and not inferior. You have as much right to steer this relationship as he has. He will only control you if you let him. So you have to be extra communicative. Relationships with big age difference are the same as relationships with small age difference.. some work some don't... actually... many men would be more faithful to a younger wife more. Because he basically wouldn't want to loose her. In the same time.. don't be a brat to him. He wouldn't take much bullshit.. just treat him as a respected equal and NEVER be afraid of voicing your opinion.
In regards to sex.. its really simple.. young guys and old guys have good and bad apples. Some will use you and some will want to commit. doesn't have to do with age.
If he has a young spirit. and he wants to commit.. you could be golden actually !
I don't know what to say more... if you have a specific question just ask.1
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