Okay so here's the thing, i was diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumor and given around 2-3 years tops (that was a couple months ago).
About 2 weeks ago i met this guy at work. We were assigned to work on the same project thatll run for a few months. We started out just colleagues working together but as time progressed, things changed. we hung out more and got to know each other better. Fast forward to yesterday and he's proclaiming his love for me... and i think i might actually be in love with him too.
Now for the hard part...
I have to break up with him. I can't allow him to fall in love with me only to die on him in a couple years!! Thing is, i haven't even told him about the whole tumor thing yet. not sure if im going to tell him at all. I think a clean break would be best for him. I dont want him to know about my condition and worry.
I dont know if im doing the right thing, or what the hell the right thing to do in this situation would even be!! But i dont want him to love me only to lose me... i can't do that to him.
Im not sure exactly what my question is to you all, but i had to get this out there. its driving me crazy!! I dont know what to do but i have to figure it out fast. I dont want us to get any more involved till i figure this out. Which is kinda hard considering we have to work side by side till this project is finished.
Ty for listening to me rant :)
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Just ask him... "what if I had a few years left to live, would you still stay with me and marry me?"0