We've been dating for a few weeks now. She's been great, and has definitely been a lot more forward than I'm used to (not a bad thing).
Just the other day, I showed a picture of her to my friend who apparently knew her. He said he thought she was in a long distance relationship though. He showed me her Facebook and sure enough, she had recently posted about how it sucks missing someone in a long distance relationship, then had the guy tagged. Although she didn't actually have "in a relationship" up.
I didn't bring it up yet because it's a little creepy how I found out. I did ask for her Facebook afterwards and she avoided doing so by using the excuse that things never go well when people who are dating add each other on Facebook .
We've not discussed being exclusive so I've fortunately left my options open. She's just the only one I've been getting serious about. Her talking to another guy wouldn't be that big of a deal, but her legitimately having a boyfriend is something else. We've also had sex, for what it's worth.
So what could be going on? Is she just lonely and wanting attention, or could she be waiting to see where things go before ending the LDR?
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Strangely I've been in this exact situation except with the genders switched of course. Unfortunately I don't think this is going to end well for you. If her LD boyfriend comes into town, she could leave you hanging :( Most likely she's lonely and wants someone to fill the void of her boyfriend. I also made the mistake of leaving my options open too and they used that against me when I tried to confront them about it and find some sort of compromise. I'm sorry you had to go through this, I hope you find someone more worth your time in the future.0