List some things that would come off as desperate in your opinion when first dating a girl.
If a girl has come off as desperate or too strong in the beginning, is there anything she can do to redeem herself?
Thank you :-)
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Overall, consistent clingy and needy behavior.
1.) She texts him excessively. This is okay if he reciprocates it, but if she's texting him more than he's texting her; it just looks desperate.
2.) She throws little tantrums if he doesn't text her back within a few hours
3.) She smothers him
4.) She seems to naturally expect girlfriend treatment, despite not officially gaining the title, and gets an attitude if she's not getting it
To redeem herself, she just needs to chill out and stop being all over him. Guys do not like to be smothered. Especially if they haven't even decided how much they like you and whether they want you to be theirs. Don't start dating a guy and make him the center of your life. They can sense that and for many guys, it's a turn off because it puts a lot of pressure on the dating experience. Just relax and let him come to you : ) and ALWAYS REMEMBER: You have GOT to CONSISTENTLY show him why he wants you around. Even if in the most subtle way. You can't expect a guy to want to date you if all you do is show the less favorable, more unpleasant sides of who you are.2
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