So I have been dating someone. We have been talking about how we are not "there Yet" as in saying I love you. He made a comment a little bit ago how I am prob goingsay it after he does even if I feel it first just because most girls do that. He is on a business trip, and I have been thinking a lot about it, and I am realizing I hate being away from him and I just want to be with him all the time and maybe I do love him. Is it weird if I say something to him and if so how should I do it. I just dont want him to think its going to fast and screw things up but at the same time I want him to know how i feel.
I think I might be in love with him, how and when should I say something?
What Guys Said 1
people in general don't do this but speak your mind honestly and stare him in the eye and tell him how you feel it's nerve wracking but in the end it helps you like bliss P. S. tomorrow im going to listen to my own advice and suck it up and save my relationship0
What Girls Said 1
Haha... I did the same thing with my hubby, then boyfriend. I had been in too many failed relationships to give my heart away again. But I felt something with him, something I'd really not felt with any other guys, and I didn't know how to handle it. So one night when we were cuddling he sensed that something was off, so he asked me what was up? I told him that I felt deeply for him but I couldn't say what I really felt bc Of past situations and that I feared he didn't feel the same way. After getting so built up with emotion (yes I shed a few tears) he turned to me and he told me I love you. I explained that I didn't want him to feel pressured to say it to me that's why I didn't bring it up sooner and it then be one sided. He told me I feel the same way about u, i dont know what ur getting upset over... after we laughed at it a bit the told me I must've been reading his mind bc he was going to say it to me that night whether I reciprocated the feelings or not.
The point to my story... if u really do love him and u think he feels the same go for it when the opportunity is wide open. Don't miss ur chance.
Best of luck to u Hun.
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