So Basically... lots of guys debate how is it best to approach a girl.. lets say you are walking down the street and a guy really likes you. He is respectable.. not cat calling or such stuff. He wants to approach you... What type of approach would you prefer? Is it that he states his intent
1- Directly '' I saw you walking over there and i thought you looked really nice / elegant / fashionable and i had to come and talk to you ''
2- Indirectly '' Excuse me, do you know where is the nearest Starbucks?'' and then expand from there with more small talk.
- I prefer he compliments me or state his intent directly then ask for my number33% (3)33% (1)33% (4)Vote
- I prefer he talks about something general first and then ask for my number67% (6)67% (2)67% (8)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
Depends on the environment.
If we're in class, I prefer to be approached indirectly because I may not even like him back and it would make things awkward in the future.
If I'm out and about at the mall or at the park, I'd like to be approached more directly because chances are, I won't be there for very long and we could both end up missing out on an opportunity.
However, it's really all about the guy's delivery. Some guys are master communicators and they know how to show they're into you with a simple look. Other guys don't know how to be direct without being too foward and putting too much pressure on the girl in the situation. Personally? I like a little bit of both. I love eye flirting! : D it's got a certain charm... I love flirty looks and smiles and then a direct approach but that's just me3