So... about 4 days ago, when I was returning home on the bus, I noticed this girl with an attractive smile. We exchanged a lot of looks, and I finally mustered the courage -for the first time in my life, I'm 21 by the way!- to go up to her. We had a small chat and then I asked for her number, which, to my surprise, she eagerly gave me. 2 days later, I texted her and asked her out, to which AGAIN she responded positively. We went out on that 'date', and while we were both a bit nervous, we got a conversation going, about basic things like music, movies, studies etc. After about an hour of talking to each other, I leaned in to kiss her. That first kiss lasted at least 30 minutes! After that things were a little bit awkward, but I believe this is due to nervousness. All in all, she didn't show any signs of not liking me. We stayed there for about 4 hours after she said we should be going.
After I walked with her, we exchanged a goodnight kiss and went our ways. I decided to send her a text to see if she was safe and sound (I did offer to take her home, but she said she was fine and I didn't want to push it). After she answered, I texted her this: 'I had a great time and I'd love it if we did this again!'. Fast forward today, 2 days later, and still no response. I'm a bit disappointed because I thought everything was going smooth and I'm trying to think what I could've done wrong. On the other hand, my friends say that she might have not had credit, or that she is shy and waits for me to ask her out again. But I'm confused... Do you think I should call her and ask her out again?
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Call her DO NOT!! text her, call her and if she wouldn't pick the phone up, leave her a WELL thought out voice mail and that's it. After that all you can do is wait. You might scared her off, kissing on the first day for 30 min is toooo much to fast ( she doesn't even know you or what your thoughts are about her), you sent her a completely wrong message. Not trying to disappoint you, but you would of scared me off too with that kind of action. What you did was kind of a clear indication that you want to get into her pants eagerly and as soon as possible!!0