So the last couple weekends I've been hitting up some bars alone and apparently that is a good way to attract bartender girls because I got 2 of them interested in me right now.
Girl 1: She's cool, fun and sexy. Gave me her # and told me she's available.
Girl 2: Same as girl 1 but I like her more than girl 1. The only complication is... she has a boyfriend. BUT she didn't tell me that until I tried to kiss her after her shift ended. We were talking dirty all night and even danced a few times so I was pretty surprised when I went in for the kiss and she told me she wasn't single. But when I asked her why she was leading me on all night she said she really liked me but she wouldn't cheat on her boyfriend. So then I asked her if she liked me more than she liked her boyfriend and she said she didn't know since she just met me. But obviously she's not completely happy with her boyfriend or she wouldn't have done all of that stuff with me.
So both girls want me to go see them tomorrow night where they work but obviously I can only be at 1 place at a time lol so not sure which one to choose. Girl 1 is pretty much guaranteed while girl 2 is more risky but I like her more and there's probably a good chance that she would leave her boyfriend for me. It might sound like a douche move for me to ruin that guys relationship but I don't know him and that's his problem and her choice.
So what would you do in my place?
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Do NOT make any choice, decision, at the moment. Things are "shaky" on Both ends, sweetie, and you just May end up miserable, "crushed," and on top of ALL this, Someone else could end up getting their "heart on a sleeve" hurt as well.
Number1: You are Not that hot for Gir1, so keep her as a friend for now. Hang out, start out as friends, but don't make promises nor lead her on, no matter how many "numbers" she gives to you. This way no one gets hurt. Yes, she is More available, and no harm in dating. And who knows...you Could even grow into her like a new pair of shoes, and when you least expect it------Fall head over heels in love.
Number2: The Other half, whom Is Not SO available, who already has a guy in her corner, is simply going to end up----breaking your heart. She may "flaunt and flirt," then "lift her skirt," but in the long run, she will end up Back with her cutie pie, and leave you standing in the lurches. More than likely, although she can say All she wants about this relationship that may be on the brink of doom, or even that she has "problems with him," she won't leave her pasture to go over the fence, because deep down she knows------the pasture is Not always greener on the other side, and no Matter how much of a "Douche" he IS, she won't "Risky" it. And even if she were, you would just be considered a "Rebound Robert," where her next "Move" would be----on and off your saddle and back on his back.
Be smart, play it cool. You don't have to rush into anything, and that includes "much guaranteed" right at the moment."