I'm seeing this guy and we have only been seeing each other for a little over 6 weeks. I really like him but he cusses like a sailor. He cussed like this the first time he met my BFF. While it bothers me a little it really bothered her. How do I broach the subject and get him to tone it down.
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I suggest talking about this when he's in a good mood and not right when it happens. I'd have three current examples of where it's been problematic. Tell him you really like him and he doesn't need to cuss constantly to impress you or prove his manhood. In fact, you'd like to see him use his vocabulary. Also, your friends aren't as open minded as you are about the language and you'd appreciate him not cursing around your friends. If he reacts poorly, may be time to move on.1