Seems to be the answer I get is that a man will never be attracted to me for very long ever.
My body type is essentially this and kinda similar in the face (well the eyes at least)
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If you truly were doing fine dating-wise until 29 and suddenly at 30 find yourself in a rut, then I think you might look elsewhere for the problem. Unless you're walking around with a sign that says "Hey I'm 30 now" I don't see how there could be very much of a difference between last year and this year. Especially since you say you've lost 15lbs. Could it be that something in your attitude or confidence has changed now that you've left your twenties and you're so aware of it? Or the same thing, but because of your recent drought in dating and not because of your age?
It's hard when people make questions on here that describe themselves as "large" and then don't give any visual representation to back that up. That's where you get the overwhelmingly negative responses, because people assume the worst. The body type in that image is not at all out of the dating spectrum. And as you say, you've been like this and pretty much been fine until recently. And another thing I'd point out, every so often on GaG, someone makes a poll about "if you had to pick a girl with a pretty face or a hot body, which would you choose," and the overwhelming results is the pretty face. Also there are people out there that prefer heavier women. There definitely are. The sample size of guys on this website isn't large enough or diverse enough to get a realistic opinion on that, so don't let it discourage you.0