I haven't been on a first date in a LONG TIME and honestly the thought of one terrifies me. What are some good tips/talking points I can take with me so I can keep the awkward silences to a minimum? What do NICE guys hope to get out of a first date?
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I'd be lying if I said men didn't want to have sex, but probably not on the first date.
Ultimately, men hope for a connection, and a good sense that the woman is not evil.
Keep in mind that while you may not have dated for the first time in some time, he may not have either, or he just went through a masty divorce or breakup.
Don't assume you are the only one carrying "baggage".1