I've never asked a girl out in person only online. How can I overcome my fear of women and how can I ask a woman out?
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When you see a girl you want to ask out... employ the 3 second rule. Count to three once you decide to act, and then move... don't give your brain time to talk yourself out of it.
Go up, introduce yourself with something simple "Hey, I noticed you from across the bar, you look like someone cool to talk to... my name is XXX".
Talk to her about herself, ask her questions. At the end of the conversation, if you get the vibe she's interested, then say "So, I'd really like to see you another time. Would you like to go out for drinks?"1
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