If someone has unresolved feelings for someone else, why would they get into a relationship? Or is your experience, what were your reasons?
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I have, yes. I started dating my current bf even though I was hung up on someone else. I was dating the other guy on and off for about year in the hopes that it would turn into something serious, but he always had an excuse for it not to. Eventually he moved on and found someone else and I was hurt. There was part of me that thought, "what if" and still thought I could change him. It wasn't until I was with my bf for awhile and fell in love with him that I realized how trivial my feelings were for the other guy. I cared for him a lot, but it wasn't a real relationship and doesn't compare to what I have now.
Sometimes you just need to get out there and push yourself to move on.1