I don't know why women don't like me and why they don't flirt with me... what do they look for in men?
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Attraction is about feelings... how she FEELS when she meets you, or sees you across the room. This is why men who are "confident" do better than the average guy... because his body language and his interactions with others effect how she imagines she'll feel when she's with him. Confident men tend to be more "in the moment" because they're not in their own heads worrying about what to say.
The confident guy is teasing and flirty and fun.
Any ways... focus on this:
- Social Skills. This is important because your relationships with friends and family will either inspire women to get to know you, or will push them away. This is because life is ALL about our relationships, especially the one we have with ourselves.
If you have poor social skills (you can enter a room of strangers and make conversation) then you need to start there. I had to do this by forcing myself to ask strangers for the time... I did this when buying groceries because it forced me to meet people and to interact with strangers. Eventually I learned that people aren't scary, they're interesting and predictable. Everyone loves talking about themselves.
Read: How To Make Friends And Influence People. Great resource for learning social skills.
- Personal Pride. How you care for yourself is obvious to everyone around you. So take care of yourself. Love yourself and women will notice. Sound lame perhaps but it's accurate from my experience. This includes how you dress yourself, how you keep your home clean and presentable, how you shave, clean, smell, workout, etc. You don't have to wear suits... but if you're clean and you look healthy, women will notice.
- Learn to tease and flirt. This is really just an extension of social skills. Basically it's about creating deep rapport with women by testing them with teasing and compliments.
I hope this helps!
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