few days ago I signed up for an account on an on-line dating site just to test the water first. To tell the truth I am not confident at all about my looks in particular in photos. I guess you know where I going to say next and yes I used someone else's photo.
I certainly did not expect much especially that I was only experimenting.
But the an expected happened and I hooked up with a girl on the site and we started talking. Everything else I told is true except the photo.
Now I am going to see here tomorrow but feel terrible about my deception though the photo is vague and for someone looks like me. But it is not me but if I argue enough I could convince her that this is me but this is an old photo especially that her photos are also vague and can easily misleading. I can be the one really who claim that she is not using her real picture or at least modified it before posting it. You the best form of defence is attack.
Now I want to talk to that girl but wonder what should I do I feel terrible. Shall I just tell her all before I meet her or meet her and tell her or meet her and if she does not suspect a thing then carry on like nothing happened?
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So, in a way you're catfishing her. The point is you're hanging yourself in this situation. you're deceiving her as to what you CURRENTLY Look like. And when she sees what you look like NOW, she very well might be disappointed because you are NOT what is displayed in your profile photo. You might try and lie about it once you see her, but its going to backfire. I've experienced this before with guys on online dating... precisely why I hate it. I went out with a guy who did the same thing. And when I met him, I wanted to turn around and go back home. Needless to say, I was not I interested. I don't know WHO likes being deceived. I think you're a tad delusional if you think suddenly this girl is going to be passive or oblivious to your looks. Good Luck.0