would it matter if your potential gf drank or not? what if she was really into drinking would that be an issue? and like partied and drank a lot every weekend? would you want to date that girl? or prefer one who just drank socially now and then or one that didn't drink at all.
myself I tend to meet a lot of party girls at bars but then realise there like impossible to date and just want to get drunk. so things never go anywhere
- party girl / heavy drinkerVote A
- occasional / social drinkerVote B
- sober / never drinksVote C
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in my opinion guys are always attracted to the "bad girls" They seem exciting and are extremely sociable. I'm not a party girl per say but I do drink a lot and I go out a lot. Many Sober/non social guys/girls want to date me, and the dynamic isn't proper at all.
And you are correct, party girls aren't really interested in dating, they just want to party. Unless you're a party dude that can keep the party going, a "bad girl" isn't going to be interested, unless you can appeal to her significantly in other ways.
However, partying for some people is a hobby, and if you don't/can't partake in that hobby it'll be a turn off. From what I've seen far more men are attracted to girls who get turnt up compared to girls who occasionally get turnt up and/or girls who never get turnt up at all. Even if the guy himself isn't one to get turnt up on the regular or at all.
I don't know if it is deliberate. Or if party girls are simply easier to notice, which makes people in general more curious about them. For example, the girl doing a keg stand with people cheering around her is probably going to get more attention than the girl standing off to the side with a cup of beer, or the girl sitting in the shadows reading a book.0
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