He's 23 she's 30
Realistically girls if your that age would you really see a guy 7 years younger as a potential bf and consider dating him?
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Age is nothing but a number, to some. Although, I tend to see women who are more hesitant dating younger guys than men when it comes to dating younger girls. Why, I don't know. But it's definitely a maturity thing as well as other things.
In your case, most 23 year olds are just getting out of college and starting their careers or job searching and might still be having their fun whereas a 30 year old is going to probably have a stable career with good pay, her own car and possibly house, etc. Pretty have her shit all together while he's just starting and figuring out his life. That's usually a huge obstacle in relationships with a larger age gap.
It's not unrealistic but you have to keep those things in mind and understand that those things can be a dealbreaker.0