This has been brought up to me a couple of different times. Like this one older woman suggested I find a girl overseas a while back. This other guy I was talking to also basically expressed his distaste for American girls and also suggested finding an overseas woman. Has anyone else ever heard of such an idea? To me it just sounds kinda out there but apparently there's such a bad stigma on American women that some really try this idea.
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Why are people suggesting I find a girl overseas?
Possibly because they think you'd be more desirable to gals overseas thus making it easier for you to get a gal.
Has anyone else ever heard of such an idea?
Yes I generally hear it from spoiled, lazy, entitled, narcissistic egoistical self-proclaimed nice guys who ironically whine that American gals possess the traits he does because the hot young gals don't want him and won't overlook his looks and such for his personality and be ever so happy to be his basically cooking cleaning sex on demand adoring fan. I sometimes hear it from old guys that in my opinion severely lack social skills and have also in my opinion skewed requirements of a much younger and more attractive gal.
"To me it just sounds kinda out there but apparently there's such a bad stigma on American women that some really try this idea."
Understandable in my opinion considering American culture to me is quite full of materialism and consumerism that seems to cross over into dating/romance replacing and upgrading partners for the bigger better deal. As well as Americans tend to be overweight/obese so physical looks to me is also lacking. Then comes in what I find to be quite high standards for gals to be 'feminine' aka a submissive subservient catering to male ego. I would find it hard to imagine there isn't a bad stigma against American gals considering I find it a common norm to use a derogatory insult like b*tch interchangeably for the general female population.
Likely this stigma is part culture and part gender as I find foreign guys way way way more appealing especially in regards to looks then what seems to be the seemingly typical bitter resentful misogynistic American male who for some reason expects me to fawn over him while he tells me how much my gender sucks... o. O1