I have been talking to my guy friend for awhile. He has been single for a yr&his ex gf broke his heart really bad, he loved her A LOT! Well he knows I like him because I admitted it, he said for me not to get invested unless I know he is ready because he doesn't want a relationship. He asked me to hang out last Sunday, he picked me up&opened the car door, made me food, we watched tv, cuddled, kissed, he gave me eskimo kisses, kissed my forehead, said how beautiful my smile, dimples&eyes were. He asked if we could hang out wed&I said yes. He picked me up&he opened the door again&we watched movies, cuddled, kissed&we messed around, but I stopped it, he wanted to lay down w/me but I felt ugly. So when he was taking me home he he had spit&he said if i'm going to date him I have to get use to it. Well he didn't text me the next day, so I texted him asking if he was mad&he said no that he just felt bad because he doesn't want a relationship&I said I knew that&I don't get attatched. He texted me a lot&asked to hang out this Sunday. We cuddled, held hands, kissed& I don't know if he wanted to mess around but I didn't. He kept asking if I'm going to mark my territory&to leave a hickey so the ladies at work can see it since they picked on him about it last time. He found out about a guy who likes me&asked "it's not like you like him right?" I mumbled no&he asked again but more serious "It's not like you like him, right?" &I said no. He held my hand in the car&kissed me bye.
Does he like me or just wants friends w/benefits or he wants to see how it will go first?
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this is a tricky one, and also sounds similar to my situation. Well by the sounds of it he does definitely like you otherwise he wouldn't be asking to hang out with you/kissing you etc... but on the other hand you have to be really careful because he's told you that he doesn't want a relationship. I guess if you're fine with being friends with benefits or just dating then that's what you're relationship will be - but be careful cause after time you will probably start to feel attachment towards him. Maybe you should carry on with the way things are for now but as soon as you're feelings start to grow stronger tell him that if it's going to work you need the title of a relationship. Hope this helps.0