I met this girl and she is absolutely amazing, we talk non-stop and it seems like she is really into me (although I'm trying to restrain myself - that's how much I like her). We're going on a first date, should I ask her on a second date right after the first (if it all goes well) or wait a few days then organise another if she is keen?
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If everything goes well and you'd like to repeat it, then you could hint at it at the end of the date with something very normal like "We should do this again sometime... talk to you soon" something like that. What girls expect, if they are very into you, and depending on how attached or cheesy she likes things, you could message her right the following morning. Different people expect things differently. If you would like her as a friend and nothing more right away, then present some distance between dates, say, two weeks maybe. But if you do want her as a girlfriend make your point obvious. Send her messages, ask her out to see her soon.
Girls want a guy confident enough and a guy that will be very clear, if not through words, in actions. Don't think that by restraining yourself and keeping things to yourself you're somehow boosting her interest. Girls overanalyze every single ding and she'll go wondering "if everything felt right, why hasn't he called?" Avoid mind games, they don't work. Just be sincere.
That's in a way how my boyfriend got me. We met some Thursday after work and we loved it. He called me the following day to see if I wanted to go to the movies on a Saturday and that's when I knew he was interested in me. No distance, not stupid silence or "pulling away", you don't need this. But as I wrote earlier, depends on her way of taking things. And absolutely, don't be silent for days, that's just stupid. If you want it, go and get it. Don't play hard to get or Mr. Busy, be transparent.2