I have been dating a guy for a few months. for a few days he is really warm and always texting me being sweet etc then we catch up and we have a really bonding fun time then the next couple of days he is kind of cold and makes me feel needy because i keep expecting the same level of interest as the previous days. this pattern constantly repeats. it drives me insane. why is he being like this. after we catch up why does he withdraw from me!
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Inarguably, many of guys have been burned and left treating their wounds after giving women their undivided attention and/or after expressing a high level interest in them prematurely. Before women understood and knew them.
Learning from and attempting to correct their mistakes, many guys intentionally avoid acting upon their true feelings with their women or with women whom they want to date to avoid being labeled as sweet, sensitive, or mushy for a lack of a better word, by women.
With that being said, I'm assuming he withdraws from you for these very reasons. He wants to avoid giving you the impression that he is a "sweet guy." After all, many sweet guys seem to get the wrong end of the stick with women.0
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