Inarguably, many of guys have been burned and left treating their wounds after giving women their undivided attention and/or after expressing a high level interest in them prematurely. Before women understood and knew them.
Learning from and attempting to correct their mistakes, many guys intentionally avoid acting upon their true feelings with their women or with women whom they want to date to avoid being labeled as sweet, sensitive, or mushy for a lack of a better word, by women.
With that being said, I'm assuming he withdraws from you for these very reasons. He wants to avoid giving you the impression that he is a "sweet guy." After all, many sweet guys seem to get the wrong end of the stick with women.
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He probably doesn't want that much attention. He could even be bi polar. Not all guys will act this way. I may have some grumpy days be I'm normally pretty consistent.
Gets bored after being intimate it's like he puts in all the effort and hard work and he's genuinely into you and he's excited about meeting up and seeing you but after he has and has been intimate or spent a substantial amount of time with you he feels he's kind of done his part and he's satisfied now until your next meeting so he's on like a cool off layed back approach until the excitement and need to see you again kicks in. Read up on the men are like elastic band theory, tells you a lot about why they do this.
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He's trying not to get too close. He's afraid he'll be hurt or rejected in some way. It's kinda like asking someone out. You build up confidence, say you're gonna ask him out, and then you change your mind at the last second. Over and over until finally one of your friends shoves you right into him. Then you have no choice. Let him know he can trust you.
He's got that polar thing where he switches back and forth. He's not sure and keeps jumping to the otherside of the fence back and forth. Just be patient with him or break up with him if you can't handle it. but make sure you talk to him about it
Cos we get bored when we get things.
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