I'm talking to a guy right now, well we are friends. For about a year now.
And he says things to me that makes me feel he views me as his savior or something.
Like he needs me, or someone, to be able to move out of his parent's again.
Tells me I'm his security blanket and that he feels he can do things when with me, and that he feels safe.
I sometimes feel like he's the damsel in distress.
He used to live with an ex girlfriend and told me they couldn't afford heat. Seriously? They're still friends, she's with someone new. But he won't tell me any specific reason why they broke up. Just that they are better as friends.
But why couldn't they afford heat? And I guess she couldn't afford her own bills too.
Makes me think about his reliability and all of that. And willingness to work hard. Does he see me as moneybags as I have a good job, live on my own, etc?
Curious what wisdom anyone can give me on this subject. We live quite a distance from eachother and so I don't see him face to face often. It's like I'm piecing a puzzle together from far away.
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Get rid of him. I know guys like him. People who don't have drive or need someone else to make them feel important are born losers. You don't know if they are born missing a chromosone or his mother drank during the pregnancy.
A man normally has goals and determination enough to want to take care and protect a woman not hand the pants over to the woman ever.
Good luck, get rid of the trash, you can do bad without help.1