How do I go about getting a gf and what are the steps I take? Is getting a gf hard?
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Relax!!! We are not that difficult. ... besides what society says. If you approach a girl the right way she will show interest. Only if she likes you.
Just be genuine. Tell her she's beautiful and start off with small talk. Dont pressure the fact that you like her. Just take it easy and see where the conversation goes.
You never know she might not be as pretty as she looks.
If you want a "good girl" she will be a tough cooky. But keep trying. And i dont mean by continuously popping up out of no where. Continue to be casual untill she shows interest, (make things flow). Now if she starts being rude, BACK DOWN.
She will loose respect for you if you keep on.
Once you have her number dont text or call the next day... just dont. It yells stalker and desperate. Wait a day at least.
. But it also depends on how. much you connected, if you think she really liked you then yeah sure! Call her the next day.
As a woman i think we all want someone who is strong and and dependable. Be on time, it looks good!! If you say your going to do something for her, do it! At the same time , dont afraid to be "human" with emotions.
For some reason guys want to be all "Macho Men"... but once a girl is in to you. She wants to see that goofy laid back side as well.
Of course you should already know the obvious- Make her feel special and unique- Never compare her, always set her appart from other girls...
When she dresses up, exagerate just a little on how pretty she is but make it genuine. . Complement her... it helps!!
-- For example if you go to pick her up for a date. When you first see her. Compliment her. And at the end of the date remind her of her beauty... stuff like that.. ya know?
Like I said just be cool when approaching a girl. Whats the worst that can happen, her telling you "No"? ... as if there are not millions of other women.
You will find someone, trust me.
Just be you and have fun with it.
Never give up. Good luck!0