When it comes to approaching both girls and guys will say 'i fear rejection.' the difference is guys are told to 'man up' and don't use that as an excuse... well why aren't girls taking that advice too?
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i don't approach men because I don't care if I'm dating someone or not. I am not constantly looking for a guy to hook up with, so i don't constantly hit on guys. If someone shows interest in me, great! if not, i'm not torn up about it. in my case, i don't take that advice because I don't care enough to approach men. If you care about finding someone to sleep with/date all the time, then the onus is on you to go about doing that (guy or girl). if you're asking why guys are the ones traditionally expected to make the first move, i find that question pointless. either way, it's unlikely to change soon. you might as well ask why men have a penis and women have a vagina. that's just the way it is.0