When I overreact and get mad, I start to yell. When this happens, my boyfriend then starts to say things that intentionally hurt my feelings. He has mentioned that he says things that he doesn't mean when he is upset, but why does he say these things? I know he loves me, and I know he knows he is hurting my feelings. He has no reaction when I cry, he seems to have no feelings when he is being yelled at. This hurts my feelings so much, even though I know its just his way of getting upset. It still hurts my feelings and I don't know how to handle it.
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If some1 hurts your feelings - puts you down or anything of that nature on purpose, then that person does not love the person they are hurting.
You say that you overreact - how do you know? Does he always tell you that - trying to belittle your feelings?0