That he hangs out with every other week or so?
Would it make him seem like a loser to you?
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no way! that wouldn't matter to me at all! if anything it shows that he is capable of having close personal relationships with someone, and being able to make them work for a long time (being able to get over arguments, giving equally to the relationships, etc.) way better than the guy who seems to have all these friends but they aren't that close, or the guy that drifts from group to group because he isn't being true to himself and no one else is/or he just doesn't know how to find genuine people or isn't genuine himself. not saying people that do this aren't genuine, sometimes they are and thats why they don't fit in because everyone else isn't. just be yourself and surround yourself with people that make you happy, even if its just a few close friends. i don't have a whole bunch of close friends either, just a few. but that doesn't mean to shut everyone else that isn't a close friend out, be kind and bubbly to everyone (i don't know if bubbly is just a girl thing) for me it takes a long time for me to be comfortable and totally myself with people, and thats ok too. nothing is wrong with you, there are TONS of people who are in the same situation, but it is definitely not bad or wrong in any way. just remember to not seclude yourself, put yourself out there, because thats how you make friends, and if what you want is a lot of friends, then thats the best way to do it :)1