There are so many girls I know who act very standoffish to most guys (except those who have celebrity looks), and have their walls up really high.
These girls also complain about being chronically single.
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I dont think there is anything wrong with having standards OR preferences regarding what someone wants or looks for in a partner. Before my boyfriend, I turned guys away ALL of the time, and I am unapologetic about it. I preferred to wait until I found a guy worth my time, and who embodied what I WANTED. LOOKS are equally as Important as personality for most people looking for a partner.
I can understand the frustration on behalf of a lot of women. Unfortunately, we live in a society that forces women to worry about their LOOKS all of the time. And as a result, women are constantly worried about their appearance, weight, aging etc. Meanwhile, so MANY men out there are convinced that most women only care about how fat their pockets are, so they neglect any concern of their appearance. Sorry, but so many men look like absolute shit, and are sloppy and mediocre looking.
When a man is not concerned about their appearance, it may look like they have "bad genes" , of course women are going to say,"No thanks" to dating him. Why settle if the girl knows she is an 8 in every way. Why should she settle for a guy who she thinks is a 5? Just like guys may not be interested in a woman who is morbidly obese (because that would likely subconsciously translate to thoughts of bad genes and bad health), its the same way women think of men. It has very little to do with how "nice" a guy is. Women become sexually aroused by an attractive man, the same as men becoming aroused by an attractive woman. Why be with someone, and settle for someone that you really don't want?
So yes, these girls are complaining. But its because they are exhausted of all of the frogs they have experienced. The guys that are super attractive and take care of themselves, are often taken already...or gay.lol...seriously. With that said, girls are right for waiting for what they want. I'm thrilled I waited and I got EXACTLY what I wanted in a partner. Physically and other wise.2