So I met this guy online. We talked every single day for about 3 weeks before meeting, and then we had an absolutely amazing first date. We laughed, talking, he held my hand, kissed me, and texted me immediately after to schedule another date. On our second date he cooked me dinner and we watched a movie, then just hung out casually. I was a little nervous because of how great out first date went, and I was also in kind of a weird head space following some events that happened at work earlier in the day (which I never brought up to him). The date ended once again with us making out. Unfortunately, now he seems to have lost interest in me as he's very evasive about making plans. I feel like I put him off somehow during our second date. I'm wondering if there's a way to recover from a luke warm second date and get our attraction back on track.
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I'm afraid only time can help. Trying to 'fix' people's feelings never works.
Give him time to work through whatever problem there is between you. He might just be going through something tumultuous in is own life; don't assume it's 'your fault' that he is being evasive.
Sooner or late you'll no doubt cross paths. You should just be gla to see him and not interroagate him. He knows he will have to tell you why he pulled back.
But let him decide when to do that.0