Hi,
To a certain extent this would apply that without money there is no love. Feeling lonely is natural but sometimes it's actually Better than being in a relationship with problems. It's great that you are taking it slow. You might be in school I'm guessing and your very young so it's common to be broke at your age. Will you be broke all your life no. Whichever girl thinks your money is an issue then she's not the one. A girl that dosen't find that you are broke an issue is a keeper as she knows that it's only for a certain time and that she is supportive. Your time will come when the right girl will walk into your life , till them enjoy life and enjoy each moment of it:)
I definitely think relationships can last and be loving without money. If they couldn't, every poor person in the world would be without... but they're not, haha!
I do, however, think that having money can reduce stress. As a couple, a lack of money often causes fights because it makes LIFE very stressful. Living paycheck to paycheck can really take a toll on someone, and it will, no doubt, have an affect on your relationships. Especially if you two are trying to raise children.
For me it wouldn't matter I'm an easy going person I can sit at home with my significant other and just want a movie and be ok with that. We don't have to do fancy things or always go out to eat and he doesn't need to have an extravagant car but that's just me I'm a simple girl. But the guy can't be cheap there is a difference when someone is broke and when someone is cheap I have dated both type of guys.
Real love is about having someone that's there for you and being there for that person, especially in financial turmoil. Nothing realistic like money should be involved in love.
That being said, money does make love easier to maintain. Although real love should be blind to money, many people don't have love that strong.
this is a stupid idea. this only matters if she is more into what she can do with you, or what she can get from you, than you. if she genuinely likes you for you, she should understand that you can't go out all that often, but that you do when you can. there is also a lot of cheap or free alternatives to things..
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I think some people think that way, but they don't know what love really is. It's beyond their small-minded paradigm to properly grasp. However, I think more and more people are becoming more onfatuated with money. Hip hop and rap have a lot to do with that, I think. It really disappoints me.
No, it's possible to have love with money, if money is the only way for someone to love you, than their not really in love with you but your money. You gotta take the chance and go forward, eventually you will find a woman that doesn't care about how much money you have as long as you have a good personality. How do you think men got women before money was invented.
For me, it's all about the guy and his personality. Money isn't necessary and it doesn't buy happiness in a relationship. Love does. But that is just my opinion.
It's all about who you are, how you make her feel, and other ways to show your affection. Are you an artist? Paint her. Write her a poem. Sing her a song. Spend time. Quality time.
An independent woman, even teen, should want that. And should not want to be bought. That's the easy route. And shallow. And won't last.
Be you. The right chica who will appreciate you will come along.
I think that money does a lot of bad to love, especially when there is les of it and you are married and have kids and real shit to deal with
Love flourishes in third world countries all the time.
Well if your logic is true then I must not love my boyfriend because he has no money. But I do love him - been together four years. So...your argument makes no sense.
In my opinion, thats not true, I have loved people that had very little to no money on hand.
Love definitely can exist without money; they're not related!
eh, love is love, what does money have to do with it?
You can have love without money.
Money is nothing without love
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