I was doing some spring cleaning at my boyfriends house while he was at work to surprise him. I dismissed his usual maid and wanted to do it myself because it is our 4 month anniversary. Most people don't take me as a wife material so I wanted to prove him and them wrong. I was cleaning up his room and when I was cleaning up his desk I found a picture of his ex in a bikini posing next to him. It is a dated photo I can tell. In his trash I found wads of tissues I guess he was jerking off to her. I looked more into his room and found I assume her underwear and lingerie in a box along with a photo album and her things. I obviously am upset at what I found because he left her for me. He told me he never thought of her. He works late shift so he will be coming home around 10 or later. I don't know if I should confront him or just pretend I never came over.
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Weellll even I have a box of stuff that belongs to my ex, or photos of us. Nothing is wrong with keepsakes unless it looks like he's totally stalking her Since its your anni I wouldn't bring it up. Just be loving towards him. Chances are those Kleenex... If they really smell like u know... He was looking at p*rn. Normally just bikinis don't get guys off anyways. Unless he's withholding a lot or never in the mood then I'd worry0
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