It sounds as though she is feeling more comfy, secure, having a "text relationship" with you, than going out on a real date in person. Because she is shy, she is most likely nervous as a little sparrow, and hasn't gotten the nerve to accept your offer to "break bread" as of yet.
No, I don't think she Means to "lead you on," and I believe sometime down the buffet table she will accept to meet up. However, I can't promise when that might be, and it would be your choice to either wait it out or---find another dinner companion.
Good luck.xx
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Five times is a bit excessive... I feel like out of those five times she could have made time for you in there somewhere. Whenever I keep pushing back dates with someone because I have too much to do I feel awful about it and I end up putting them first before I do anything else so I don't forget.
She may be too shy to tell you she isn't interested. It's horrible and rude and i'm sorry but sometimes I use the phase out method too when it's a really nice guy I don't want to get with.
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I feel terrible because I have done this. In all honesty, I'm shy like her too. It's pressure when a guy constantly wants to hang out. It's not necessarily leading you on here, though. She's more comfortable without the face to face thing. Give her some time and don't keep asking.
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