I've been seeing this girl for three months now an things are going great but we've never had the talk.
She seems to make use of this loophole quite frequently and is dating a second guy since for weeks.
Of course I don't like that all that much and I'm ready for a commitment.
My fear is that she will just let me go if I demand exclusivity since that other dude is superior to me in many areas.
What am I supposed to do. I'm so desperate :(
She decided to go with him, I'm still in shock but in the end it's probably for the better. Thanks so much for y'alls help!
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You have competition. Just continue to do what you are doing but ask her out a bit more. On the other hand, you cannot force anyone to date you or choose you. Yes, you are in a difficult position because you like her and she has made it clear that she is dating someone else, who in your eyes is better than you. Or did she somehow bragged on him so much that you pretty much think that? I wouldn't dwell on it too much, instead just continue to date her like you've been doing. Don't put too much thought into this other guy. Who knows.. He might be a complete douche to her and she might come back to you, wanting to be exclusive.
Wishing you nothing but luck.0