so i hooked up with my biggest crush for the past year. we went to a concert and then spent the night at her house we hooked up and did everything short of having sex. She said i like you lets wait. the next few weeks we hung out any free time she had. she then took me out two weeks ago for my bday and paid for dinner then we went bowling with friends. she said she couldn't stay the night bc she worked early but wanted to spend that fri with me. suggested we cook dinner then go see a late showing of a movie we talked about. she said she had way more free time and could stay over that night. fri rolls around she comes over etc we have a great night lots of make outs cuddling on couch she is holding my hand all night at movies….but she earlier in the dinner expressed she was frustrated bc she now has to work a double at the restaurant and can't stay over…we kiss good night very late and she says she feels bad not staying over i then say i understand. After that night (will be two weeks this fri) I've had very little contact…we exchanged texts short and sporadic and it decreased from there. Tues morning she responded to my Monday text "still grinding first day off in 6 days is this afternoon at 4" i respond sympathizing and then suggest to her I'm off wed morn if she wants to so something. No response then wed morn says "sorry got off work and just couched it " i didn't get over ambitious and just said "bet you needed that" she responded wed after noon and was like "yup and just went to the mountain to board also needed" from there no real communication…I said "hows the rest of your week look lets get together " and was ignored. Fri she sent a random text about a show i had mentioned to her weeks ago. She said "hope you have fun tonight dancing your pants off" i took this as a BS save face text. Waited to mon and i said "how was your weekend? got time for a beer this afternoon" since fri she has said nothing, we spent 3 weeks seeing each other...
need help: girl went silent. We hooked up and the next two-three weeks dated?
also update, she works in the restaurant industry and worked the sat after we hung out until wed but she had free time and usually would text and communicate. I fear not making a move fri night made her go away.
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