Would it bother you? Would it make you want him more? less? Try harder? Not try at all? Would you think he's a player? Not capable of love? Commitment issues? Would you respect that? Would you think it is honorable? Sleazy? Anything?
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LOL! Well I've only found out recently that to my surprise, I don't care/ it doesn't bother me.
It doesn't really effect how badly I "want" him, personality does that more for me. I think it's honourable to know yourself well enough to be comfortable in dating multiple people and being honest with them all, sleazy to me would be if he was using them all for sex and not actually respecting them as people and understanding them as an independent human being - then again I put value into knowing/respecting/trusting the people I have sex with and am not big on fucking and never talking again - not big on being used or using people. - but thats besides the point!
I'd assume at first that he's a player, not capable of love and has commitment issues before further explanation but wouldn't immediately shut him down. I'm pretty open minded and generally curious so with further explanation (which I'd ask for), depending on his personality, I'd make judgements from there.1