Its been 3 months since he left me and he started dating after. I felt like I'm ready to move on. I should be. My friends have been forcing me to get out. But whenever I talk to a guy I don't feel that strong of a connection. The conversations don't flow. I end up deciding it won't work out. Even flirting doesn't seem right. Looking at another guy feels nasty. I just feel so cold and cruel for tossing so many good guys away... I can't seem to trust anyone anymore... I know I NEED to move on and he will never come back to me no matter how much I pray. I know it won't end up like that picture where the guy is happy at first but then in a couple of months he's sad and the girls happy.
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well to let you know if he did love you for real then no it will end up like this picture and i know it by the way , for the other thing m i dont believe that since he has moved on that this means you HAVE to move on in the moment , no hell no , this is so cruel to yourself , it is okay to admit to yourself and to the world that you are not okay , and that you are sad and weak , it is okay dear , take as much time as it needs to heal the wound , dont push yourself and dont listen to your friends , it has been a year now and i still break down and cry at times from my lat break up , and i am not ashame of my weakness , because we are humans and not machines , we had feelings and drew plans , so it is normal to take time to regain our feelings and our power , i do the same thing , i meet guys , i laugh and have fun , but i can't grow any feelings i just feel empty inside , but i dont punsh or feel guilty becuase WHAT CAN I DO? I LOVED SOMEONE ALREADY AND IT FAILED !! be your best friend for now , listen to th music you love , break down and cry whenever you want , remember the memories and feel sad as much as it takes , and slowly by slowly you will accept it and eel less harder about it , and that's what i call healing , good luck my love, and feel free to contact me if you need any help0
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