This guy I met at a friend's party is a total gym junkie, and so am I. We would respond to each other's workout photos on Facebook and would support each other's advice to our mutual friends who are trying to lose weight. One time, on Facebook, after supporting my advice to a friend, he asked me to go to the gym with him. Now, our memberships are at DIFFERENT gyms so if I were to go with him, I'd have to pay a drop in fee. I'm telling you this in case this makes a difference. It's not like we both happen to go to the same gym. He actually wants to invite me to HIS gym. Does that make it a date?
And just so you know, the first time we met, I can't say we hit it off completely. We were debating about ellipticals. Also there was a bit of a competition between us as we were both trying to recruit our mutual friends to our separate gyms. I had been helping out one mutual friend in particular but he wanted to take over in helping out this person. Now we don't "compete" anymore but try to include each other when we invite our mutual friends (but because of schedule we haven't worked out together yet). So my other question is, would a typical guy ever feel that a girl is his competitor in fitness? I never claimed to be as strong as a guy, but I've made claims that I push myself just as hard. He didn't believe me at first (when we first met) but I think he's starting to because he has seen me in tank tops now. So other than telling me whether he's trying to ask me out, do you think he would still see me as a competitor in front of our friends? Like I indicated, the first time we met we were like that. First impression lasts but it's been two months and we've been supporting each other since. He sometimes would text me about his workouts too and ask about mine. So does he want a fitness motivator, competitor or a girlfriend?
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Lool! Strange guy. There is no question of being seen as competitors but he has got ego when it comes to fitness issue. Seems like you hurt his ego initially by challanging him and he may be like " a girl challenged me!"
But after all yiu beingba girl, there may be indeed a attraction from his side. He may be using gym talks as excuse to communicate with you.
May be by inviting you to his gym, he wants to impress yiu with his muscles and strength.
He may be little childish i guess.
But ya , he wants your attention. He may be happy about that there is girl who is just like him and so to remain in touch with you, he regularly discusses about fitness. May be he is weak in flirting and not sure about the response from you he may recieve.
Hope my guessing is right. Try flirting from your side first and check out his reaction.
But will you date him if he asks you out?0
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