I'm 16 and there is this boy that I recently really started to like, we are pretty close as friends but lately he has started doing little things that he didn't before. he'll give me hugs and rock back and forth not letting me go and the more I laugh the longer he hugs me, he asks me for kisses all the time even in front of his friends, (which i thought maybe he was making fun of me because he always says it in a joking way) he picks me up and spins around and sneaks up on me in the hallways and gives me behind surprise hugs, also one of his friends told me he talks about me all the time. Now, I know this sounds a lot like he is really interested but the thing that stumps me is the question: is this a way of just flirting or is he genuinley interested in me? what do you think?
- he's interestedVote A
- just being flirtyVote B
Most Helpful Guy
Well to me him flirting is being interested in you. He definitely likes you and you seem to like him so there is your answer. Just see where it goes from there. It is true I have girls I flirt with that will never be anything more, but if your both having fun and like being with each other, then who cares? One more thing when someone jokes about something, especially like that, there is an 80% chance that is really what they want and are just downplaying it bc other people are around.1
Most Helpful Girl
I'd say he likes you, but you also have to take into consideration how he treats other women--I have a huge crush on this guy, but unfortunately he flirts with EVERYONE, so the way he treats me is the same as any other, what we have is nothing special. Why not flirt back? If you like him, there's no harm in letting him know you do. You never know, things could develop ;)0