I just got back from the worst date ever and it just makes me so sad that it didn't work out again.
Anyone else feel that way? I don't know how to fix it?
Generally I'm happy with my life but sometimes, like now, where I get kinda depressed about it.
I'm 21, never had a boyfriend. I think I'm reasonably attractive and a decent person but I just can't seem to meet guys.
In real I'm terrible at getting dates so I tried it online and I got loads of messages and been quite a few dates but it just never works out. The ones I like don't like me and vice versa. It's just so frustrating
And now that college is going to be over soon and I'll be home for the summer, that's another few months of my life of me not dating
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I was 21 before I dated. And it SEEMED great for a few months until I found out the girl was cheating on me with A LOT of people. Trust me, it's not always as good as it seems.
I know several people who didn't date until 26/27 years old. I know a girl who went 12 years between boyfriends. I've gone years without a date.
There are those who are lucky. There are those who are skilled at dating. There are those who would be better off being single. There are those who would be better off in a healthy relationship, but can't find one. There are those who jump from relationship to relationship, going for low quality just for "bragging rights."
Sometimes I get depressed about it, but it makes perfect sense as to why I'm not dating (not much to do with personality flaws on my part, and mostly to do with crummy circumstances). Still not a fan of being single, and for so long, but I just have to try to live my life and try to make as good a life as I can without a relationship for now.0