In short: Things are going great, asked her for coffee, she starts sending kissy faces when we text. Then, I noticed I was initiating most of the texting so didn't text her from Friday -Monday. She texts me Monday to wish me good luck on something, but seemed more "reserved" when I saw her in class.
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Females are constantly being shamed for being to clingy and needy, and if we show we have to much interest right off the bat, it makes us look vulnerable. Sad but true double standard. So maybe she doesn't want to text first until she's absolutely positive you like her. However, she could also be uninterested and just too nice to let you know. Just ask her why she doesn't text first and let her know you are interested and see where it goes from there.0