Okay, quick rundown.. I've been dating this guy for roughly 4 months. Everything is great until it comes time for a disagreement. He doesn't argue. Period. Instead he shuts down and ignores me. First time we argued he ignored me for 2 days and then finally asked me to meet up and talk. Fast forward 3 weeks later to this Saturday. I got snappy with him via text and instantly I got the silent treatment. I sent him roughly 3 or 4 texts trying to speak to him throughout the night. No response. The next afternoon I texted asking if he wanted to talk about things or if he was just over us, his response was "honestly, I don't know right now." I said okay. That was two days ago and still not a word. This just seems beyond immature to me that every time we hit a little tension he immediately shuts down and begins doubting our relationship. by the way , he's 26 and I'm almost positive I'm his first gf since high school. I need advice, please. Should I try contacting him again, let it be, or just assume it's over? Someone help me understand this dude.
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He sounds like the average woman.You can tell him that, and tell him he's got the balls of a girl.
The best thing that can happen to people like that is to have fucked relationships for the rest of their life.That's exactly what does happen, because they have no communication skill.0