I went out with this girl from my uni, she is very gorgeous and just a great person so I might have been a little nervous.
I thought dinner and mini golf would make for a good time to talk and get to know each other, looking back probably a bad childish idea, but she seemed like having a very bad time and I had to carry the whole conversation and I didn't even get a hug after I drove her home.
Do you think I can still ask her out again because I reaaaally like her and what could we do on a second date?
by the way I was not trying to be cheap but I thought mini golf would make for a more relaxed setting than a fancy restaurant.
Thanks for your help!
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Personally I love your first date idea. I would have thought it was perfect & fun, not childish. I'd say ask for a second date yes but don't bring up the fact that you think she didn't have a good time. That's a bit off and throws the entire tone of the text in the wrong direction. Just say "Hey! I had a great time the other day/night and I'd love to go on another date with you. I was thinking dinner at *insert a nice restaurants's name*" I say opt for another dinner or even lunch but leave the activities behind. If she says no then you know she's just not feeling chemistry with you and at least you tried!0