I've been talking to this guy since December . He works overseas and was home for a month, but we only hung out 3 times. We say we like each other and are not talking to or interested in anyone else, but there is no label.I asked him if he would want to date eventually, and he said he does he is just taking it slow and doesn't want to rush without getting to know me, and he feels bad he is gone. He told me he has never had a long-distance relationship work because the girl either breaks up with him or cheats on him.
Is he giving me a cop out? How much longer do I have to wait for him to decide if he wants to date me? (He'll be back in June or July) We usually talk on a daily basis, but how can we get to know each other deeply if not a lot of deep talks are happening?
I'm getting to that point where I want to start pulling away because I'm getting so frustrated, turning down guys and waiting for him when he doesn't even say straight up what he wants.
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Well, since he'll be back in June or July, I'd say wait it out until then. Start hanging out more in person when he gets back, and after a little while ask him if he wants it to turn into something more. If he's still hesitant, I'd say he's either not interested enough, or just stringing you along for an ego boost. Your relationship has potential, it seems like you need to give him some more time to get back etc.
But of course, if you don't want to wait until June/July, you don't have to.0