So I've been talking to a girl for almost a month now and we were going good! We are going to prom together and I thought we had something between us but apparently not... I asked her where we stood and she said that she's not looking for a relationship right now. She asked what I wanted and I said I thought we had something. She told me that we could have something in the future. I know this other guy has been hitting on her. Normally I would just walk away before I get hurt but I can't because we are going to prom together so I can't just stop talking to her. It sucks though because I don't know if I'm her back up or if she really does want something down the road.. Any advice?
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Yeah, she's not interested. If she was, she wouldn't wait until "the future."
A guy told me that once. He said "who knows what will happen in the future" but nothing happened. She's trying to string you along because she likes the attention. I say go to prom with her but keep your distance after that. And I think normalice is wrong too. If you really like her, sleeping with her will only make it worse.0