I will be turning 24 soon and I have never had a girlfriend or a date for that matter.
This is probably in part to my high standards for potential girlfriends which are really unfair and also unrealistic too. Maybe they come from my mom being gorgeous I don't know.
I just know on a physical level I cannot play in the league I want to like I'm a bit chubby 6'4 guy not Brad Pitt.
Emotionally I'm not exactly a social butterfly.
I just wonder how I can change what I want in a woman without feeling like settling, because in reality I wouldn't be, and maybe get to go out with a nice girl sometimes.
by the way I realize I sound like an arrogant piece of shit but these are just my honest feelings ( and part of my non existent charm ;)
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Get in shape. Nobody can expect something they don't bring to the table.
Work out "must haves" and try to cut it down to 3-4 traits.
Don't try to prove yourself with a woman. Do you really need a dime to be turned on? Probably not. Is it possible you think having a show stopper would make you feel better about not having much game? Likely.
Find what you really need vs what's just your insecurity and ego talking. A girl you're attracted to who treats you good and honestly wants you will make you feel better than showing up with the hottest chick who isn't all that into you on a deep level. Look at celebs and other rich guys who trade fortune and fame for looks - many still aren't satisfied. Going for the emotionally cheap thrill is easier, but often less gratifying.
Also, get your self esteem together for your own sake, not just to score chicks.