I've been seeing this guy for only a few months, and he regards me as his girlfriend. He's sweet, caring and nice, I do like him quite a lot. I thought I was in love with him, but recently I realized I might not be as into him as I thought. The truth is, I kind of realized I'm not all that ready for a relationship yet (I'm only 18). I feel like I should break up with him because if I drag it out it's only going to hurt him more. I have no idea how I can do this though...is there any way I can break up with him without making him think it's his problem and not mine?
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These are always set up the same, this common proposition of how nice the person is and how there was some form of depth and how it's more "you" than him or something and how you want to "protect".
Look, you're 18, so you're a brat. You want an easy way out, the whole "caring for him" is BS, let me tell you how you feel right now: You don't actually like him, you actually want to run around, and that whole "I'm not ready yet" is equivalent to "FUCK THIS SHIT I'M YOUNG!" which is basically saying that you've not half a mind for the person to begin with.
Just break up with him without the drama, spare us all the pain of listening to how... "intensely concerned" you are. Pft, dramatic waifs.0