It's something I've noticed for a very long time now, if a guy is upset, angry, frustrated and complaining about his lack of success with girls, he is told to grow some balls, be a man and man up, but if a girl is struggling with guys, people sympathize with her, society comforts her in peril meanwhile guys are expected to be on their own, overall, why is personal responsibility expected of guys more than girls? bitter guys get criticized more than bitter girls do, why? this is something that I will admit pisses me off.
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Usually, when guys complain about the dating world; they are simply being whiny, borderline crying, and taking their frustration out on innocent bystanders. There's nothing productive about the post and it seems like there's no true desire to move forward, but he literately just wants to sit on the internet and complain then speak to every female trying to HELP him as if she's the one who made him feel that way in the beginning, passive aggressively saying what he wanted to say to the girl that didn't want him. Whereas, generally, guys give girls more legitimate reasons to complain. Now, don't get me wrong; there are some sleazy, grimy, sl*tty ass girls out there who probably deserve the karma guys give them. Also, I'm not victimizing females, I'm just being realistic about the fact that there are concrete, factual situations where guys do f*cked up things, JUSTIFYING females complaining.
It's not reasonably justifiable to complain and whine because you weren't successful with a female. This is because there are various reasons why the female may not have wanted the guy. Often times, the guy is actually being self-absorbed when assuming that it's all about him rather that the female had her eyes on someone else or it was simply bad timing.
So yeah, that pretty much sums it up. Not only that, but it's outright annoying when you have a bunch of guys whining, on the verge of tears, about something that EVERYONE goes through. It's a phase that EVERYONE experiences, some people just stay in that phase longer than others.5