OMG why latinas are color struck and Very racist?

I find it funny that black men and latino men in NYC don't discriminate against women of any kind. When it comes Latinas there are quick to judge men based on color of their skin, Why is that? I met an African employee at CVS and told me his share of racism from hispanic women and never had an opportunity to date one. I'm asking WHY MOST OF YOU LATINAS THINK IS ALRIGHT TO TREAT US THIS WAY? I would love to date a hispanic woman but how can I do so if most you are being racist towards us especially if black men approached you in a well manner like everyone else? Please give a me feedback...

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  • I'm Latin but seriously... What you said is simply not true, and it's hypocrite. Are you saying that ALL Latin girls don't like black guys? Did you research this? Did you ask this to a considerable number of Latin girls and they said no, I don't like black guys, for you to come to this conclusion?
    And YOU are the one racist here. You are criticizing Latin woman for picking certain races, and YOU are doing it. Why do you want to date a Latin? Why not a black, Asian or European?
    And no one nowadays is 100% one race, just saying.

    This question was ridiculous.

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    • I'm just saying because most of the attractive latinas either date other latinos or white like their superior than everyone else. Go to dating sites like match.com or Latinamericancupid. com and see what the hell I'm talking about. Its bad enough that south americans are racist towards blacks. Mentality like this is what makes my blood boil.

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    • I really don't like guys that are too pale, I prefer darker skinned ones, but I don't think Latin girls don't like you because of your skin tone. People like to date people that are like themselves in some ways, and complementary in others. Women like men who look like their dads and men like women who look like their moms. Since you're very different from them they find you unattractive.
      But don't say the South Americans are racist toward blacks. I am South American and I have a very dear black friend, and some black acquaintances I don't hate at all. Seriously, my friend swears she has never suffered racism. We are not racist.

    • Well are light skinned?

What Girls Said 15

  • I live in NYC, and I think its funny and absurd that you're generalizing based off of some nonsensical opinion from am African dude. Ridiculous. *eye roll*

    #developyourownopinion
    #generalizationsareignorant
    #bitterandalone

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    • I agree. I am originally from NYC. I saw all kinds of mixes. It's one of the more cosmopolitan cities where race isn't so much an issue because they have been dealing with long before anybody else did because of their being an international city.

      You can't just base it on one person's opinion. There may be some tendencies, but don't generalize.

  • You are being selfish. If she doesn't want to date you she has every right to reject you. Criticizing somebody for rejecting you is just proof that you don't deserve them.

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  • Mexican here. I'm not racist at all and I've dated a few boys from different races.

    To be honest, I think you're doing a bit of the same by generalizing like that. Some people treat people differently based on multiple factors, some don't. We can't just say "all the latinas are racist" because that's impossible. Maybe you haven't have luck yet, or maybe the way you came across to them wasn't entirely appealing or something.

    If anything, I'll tell you this: Women here absolutely LOVE American white men. They rain down any white Americans that come over here. I'm not even joking, our native guys here don't have a chance if there's an American at a party. If you're dead set in meeting a Latina, I can almost guarantee you'll find someone here provided you know your way around girls.

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  • Like bubbletrouble said " it's not racist to not date outside your race". Many Hispanic women, especially those that are darker-skinned are very open to dating and marrying black men. I know many Cuban and Puerto Rican women from New York who have dated and/or married black men.

    I think it also has to deal with how closely they relate to their own culture. If they are very family-oriented and their family still holds many Hispanic values, then any other culture, not just black, is foreign to them and they would like to date/ marry someone who will fit in with their family and culture. Black people have a very strong culture and identify very closely with it. Just saying it might be a reason why.

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  • Its not racist of them to not date outside their race.

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  • Many latin people are black or mulato.
    I don't really know what goes on in nyc.
    But I am part lebanese (middle eastern) and part dominican from caucasion and not African or indian descent. From what I have seen in many latin American countries there is a sort of discrimination. The whiter you are the higher standard of living and power you have. There are exceptions naturally.

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  • You sound very color struck and very racist

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  • That's not true and NYC IN DA HOUSE! You see latinas with most every race.

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    • lol I'm not far from NYC but man it's hard to find a decent latina in NYC haha most rather you be in NYC.

  • you need to try to ask one out first, to judge so soon based on what your co co worker said is not really fair.
    there are people who dont mind to date any race, and some who have preference towards certain race.

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  • You sound very racist AND sexist to assume all Latina women are like that

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  • I'm Latin and not racist so... -_-

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  • Maybe you're ugly.

    It's okay, I'm ugly too.

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  • I'm Hispanic and no I'm not racist. I don't care what color a guy is and that's very unfair of you to generalize all Latin/Hispanic women based on just that. Some of my closest and best friends are black in fact my best friend is black and he's a guy.

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  • ALRIGHT. I'm latina and not all of us are like that.

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    • What about Colombian or South American women, there not racist? Very hard to believe.

    • I'm Mexican, which means I'm Latina too, but I can't speak for South American women.

  • I'm Latina and i love black me but that's just me everyone is attracted to different people you can't force whats not there. Trust me there are Latina's out there that like black, white, Asian , indian whatever you will find one.

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What Guys Said 8

  • i've asked myself this question all the time. i stay away from chicks within my race because of this. though its kinda funny since in the racism in latin america is nowhere near as hardcore as in the usa. but to me i think its just another product of the narcissism that runs through hispanic women.

    hispanic women are from my point of view the most self centered women in the world, so to me they make skin color such a huge factor because (and i have noticed this from my own experiences) they think that if there being seen with a black man people around her are going to assume that she is a hoodrat or just another push over hoe. they probably won't date a white men because from their point of view white men are boring and lame. and of course there not going to go after Asians because of that stigma they have of supposedly all being short, too feminine and having small penises.

    once again everything i said was from my experiences since im latino myself and i was race in a heavily hispanic community. im not say they are true.

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    • and by the way man. just dont date a latina. trust me, you aren't missing anything

  • this is a very blanket statement that doesn't really work for the entire race/gender that you are classifying here. it may work for a number of individuals that you have met but not the entire race.

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  • Latinas just like to talk shit about everybody.

    I would know, I'm Mexican. I've witnessed it.

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    • You are generalizing too. I'm Latin, and I NEVER say bad things about people. I accept them the way the are and treat them according to how I know they would like to be treated.

      And it's YOU that are talking shit about people here.

    • Lol im Latina and I dont talk shit

    • Congratulations to you both.

  • Por que son tontas chabal!

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  • Coming from a black guy (among many) that wants everything but black women, this is amusing and also rather disgusting. I think this is nothing but trying to get women to say how much they love black men like all of your other questions seem to be.
    The only unfortunate thing is that most of the girls on here are dummies that can't see through this.

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  • You know, I'm sick and tired of Black guys claiming that Latinas are racist when the Latinas don't want to date them. And to be totally honest, it's often dark skin Black guys that make such claims.

    Yet, hypocritically, if given the option, these same guys will ignore and reject most dark skin women, or most notably, Black women, to date a fair skin Latin woman. Wait, come to think of it, I cannot recall seeing a Black guy pursue a dark skin or Black Latina. The truth.

    Then, like you, they complain when fair skin Latin women prefer and want to date fair skin guys. Go figure, right! It leads me to question their motives.

    Is it fair to say that these type of guys are racist or color struck?

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  • What are you taking about? I live in NYC, and latinas date all race. I haven't seen then with Asian thiugh. Latinas love latin men, black, white. They usually stick to their kind though

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    • They love middle eastern, south Asian . Just because i haven't seen them with east Asian does nit mean they don'tlike them though

  • Part of Latina culture is trying to be as white as possible.

    It shouldn't be too shocking, Latinas are in fact the product of colonization between "Indians" Natives and the Spanish.

    The Spanish won, and they set the standards.

    It's like that in India too because of the British but it is even more pronounced among Latinas because unlike in India, most Latinas are actually a mix of both ethnicities, but buy varying amounts.

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    • I agree. Others set their example. But not all are like this.

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    • I meant Whats wrong with attractive latinas dating black men?

    • Because blacks aren't white.

      It wasn't the Ashanti or Zulus who colonized Mexico, therefore Latina culture doesn't obsess over blacks the same as they do for whites. Duh.

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