I met a girl she's 26 and has a small kid... I myself have no kids but i'm responsable enough for it not to bother me at all in terms of financial status.
Problem is she lives like 2 minutes away from the kids dad.. apparently they have nothing going on but he still doesn't accept the fact that she is with me and he goes into her home as if he had rights to do so.
He takes care of the kid while she's at work and at night she drops by to pick him up.. when she has to take him to the doctor she goes with him instead of asking me even tho she seems madly in love with me and according to her has no feelings at all for him.
It bother's me that he's around and she knows it but it's something that won't change... what should i do? pursue something more or keep my distance?
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If she has a child you should be pleased that she maintains contact with the childs father. Of course they will go to the doctors together with the child if they can, its the mature and right thing to do. Where kids are concerned you have to think of the childs welfare not your own. You will only ever understand this once you are a parent yourself, and if your relationship with the kids mother breaks down you will appreciate her wanting you involved with your childs welfare. Well done to her I say !0